Let’s talk about love…
Love is an essential part of life. It is the key to a happy and harmonious living. Through this, peace springs forth. When you love, understanding others can no longer be difficult. At times, we miss to see the real meaning of love, the reality about loving and the concept of being loved.
Love should not be selfish; it gives the other the freedom to do what makes him happy. Love should not be suffocating, it should make the other feel secured and not imprisoned. When you love, you don’t dominate; rather you allow the other to become who he really is. Love is not controlling, but it guides. Love seeks for the good of the other and avoids anything that could destroy the one you love. Love must not be confused with one’s own personal desires. Love is built in respect, trust and understanding. If you want things to go your way all the time and abuse the other, you don’t respect and so it is not love. When you feel doubtful of the things he does all the time, you don’t have trust and it isn’t love. If you don’t get what the other wants and you find it hard to compromise, then you don’t understand and therefore it is not love.
If you really love a person, you should respect him and avoid making him feel that his rights are stepped upon. You allow him to do the things he has to do without doubting about it. You must be confident that he’s not doing anything that could destroy both of you. On the other hand, you must be trust worthy and keep on reminding yourself that you are being trusted. Know that things can’t be at your favor all of the time. Consider what the other wants and what he needs, some things might not be clear for you but you must learn to understand. Also, do not be abusive just because you know that you are understood.
Balance is needed in any relationship; both must take part and should do their roles. When we love, we tend to do things excessively and when we don’t receive the same, we feel cheated. When you love, remember that you must let the other do his part. Don’t make love as an excuse in becoming stupid. If you feel that you are not being loved back, take time to evaluate yourself and see if you have expected too much. The person you loved might have really loved you, but you don’t seem to realize because you give so much and so you expect too much. In loving someone, you love without asking something in return hence it is sincere. When you love don’t give your all, leave something for yourself so that when you stumble, you could still have the courage to stand and become brave enough to love again.
You are indeed fortunate if you are loved. Being loved is one of the best feelings we could ever feel. With this, we are faced with a responsibility to avoid hurting the ones who loved us. Don’t allow your lover to feel that his love is not appreciated. Find ways in order to let that person know how happy you are for being loved. Avoid the avenues of making him tired of loving you; you are not forced to love in return if it’s against your will. But if it is really love, show it so that he would know that loving you is indeed a right decision.
Love could really be a powerful word. It could mean a lot of things. We are all capable of loving and we all deserve to be loved. We just have to look closely and see if it’s really love. The indicators are mentioned above but it’s all up to us. See for yourself how love works and how it really feels. :)
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